07/29/2010 (4:45 am)
CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons Best answer on the web
located in CA and NY, who cater to S & M, whereby one must pay a fee to
enter or belong?
Please also tell me if there are any specific restrictions placed upon
the individuals who enter/partcipate (ie: what one can/cannot engage
in).
Please provide name & contact number of clubs, along with their fees
whenever possible.
April, --There are also international "secret society" clubs of this genre. These ultra-secret clubs cater to high society, government officials, and celebrities. The names are not-so-secret (they can be discovered), however, gaining access to a member list, or an event, is another matter, it would take a LOT of money, a court order, or a recognizable name or face. These exclusive black tie and gown events are held at exquisite exotic locations, have high-tech security, are reported to be the ultimate D/s experience, anywhere on the planet.
I know of one Dom (in Denmark) that founded such a club, if you like I will contact him and direct him to this question. He may -or may not, wish to be interviewed.
~~Cynthia
How can I go about submitting the tip?
Thank you for an EXCELLENT job!
April aka HighVoltageBlonde
Thank You for asking.
There are _dozens_ of clubs in both cities. I selected as examples clubs geared towards heterosexual participation
in Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism (B&D/D&S/S&M). I avoided links to clubs
that have affiliations: race, religion, gay and lesbian, etc. Keep in mind however, that there are probably a couple
affiliation groups you might be interested in, so look them over carefully.
In these Clubs (and at Play Parties in general), there are public rooms and private rooms, and each Club has it's
own rules and conduct codes, please explore the links for complete details. As far as what is NOT allowed... Not
much, if you have a CONSENTING partner. There are literally hundreds of possible activities, and if something is
deemed inappropriate in a public area, you would be discreetly asked to move to a private room.
What makes the private, for profit dungeons *legal* is there is ABSOLUTELY NO SEX. See The Dominion, below, for an
example...
FOr certain, there are no persons under age 21, and drinking alcohol in general is not allowed. Some clubs have a
minimum age restriction, usually age 25. The "LIMITS" list would be common sense, like No prostitution, No animals,
No Scat (however, watersports are allowed in the large spacious bathrooms...). Some Edge Play would be too extreme
for a public area, except on "Edge Play Nights"... TENS units are common in public areas in the clubs, as are all
forms of Domination and submission, like: bondage, flagellation, caning, whips, cages, corporal punishment,
humiliation, etc....
If you are new to this lifestyle, I would not recommend going to an Event alone, I would recommend starting out with
a simple "MUNCH," nor would I spend money on any memberships till I found my niche and made some friends. Somehow I
don't think this is the case. If you would like more examples, please tell me which links you liked best and I will
provide similar links in a Clarification. If you have specific questions, don't hesitate to ask befpre rating my
Answer.
HERE IS THE INFORMATION:
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LOS ANGELES AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES
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EXAMPLE CLUBS IN LOS ANGELES:
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THE DOMINION - Private Dungeon
You can book an appointment by telephone at:
(310) 204-6777 or (310) 559-7111
Email: appointments@dominionsm.com
http://www.dominionsm.com/about.html
..."The only female owned and operated BDSM club in Los Angeles. Established in 1980 by Lady Laura, one of the
foremost Dominas of her time, The Dominion offers a safe, clean, friendly and caring environment for you to explore
your inner desires without fear of judgment.....located in a lovely Tudor style building in West LOS ANGELES. We are
approximately 15 minutes from LAX, downtown Los Angeles, Century City and Santa Monica with access from both the 405
and 10 freeways..."
HOURS OF OPERATION:
Sunday: 1pm -10pm
Monday, Tuesday: 3pm - Midnight
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday: 11am - 1am
As of December 4th, 2004:
Monday - Saturday: 11am - 1am
Sunday: 1pm -10pm
Overnight sessions now available.
RATES:
$100 for ½ hour
$130 for ¾ hour
$160 per hour
Heavy sessions with a submissive:
$150 for ½ hour
$260 per hour
Caning fee is extra
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The Chateau
7403 Fulton Avenue
North Hollywood, CA 91605
Phone: 1-818-503-3003
http://www.thechateau.com/
A REVIEW of the Club: http://www.eros-la.com/articles/2003-09-16/chateau/
..."The only legally licensed full nudity BDSM establishment in LA.....Appointments are not needed just come in and
join our family of friends and see why The Chateau is recognized as the finest BDSM establishment in Los Angeles..."
SESSION HOURS
Monday through Saturday - 11AM to 1AM
Sunday - 11AM to Midnight
CALL FOR PRICES, they are not listed.
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SOCAL RESOURCES
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EUROS GUIDE - LOS ANGELES
http://www.eros-la.com/eros.htm
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Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
This site specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages, so... Navigate to a long list of Los Angeles
Clubs and Associations:
First page: look for "Click HERE to Enter"
Next: MEET PEOPLE (on the left)
Next: California Event Calendar
Next: Southern & Central Coast California Calendar
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Gloria Brame's Kinky Links Catalog
http://gloria-brame.com/kinkylinks/onlinebylocation.html
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BDSM Organizations: CALIFORNIA
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=CALIFORNIA&view_records=View+Records&w
w=on
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NEW YORK AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES
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EXAMPLE CLUBS IN NEW YORK:
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TES
http://www.tes.org/
The Eulenspiegal Society New York City - NYC's oldest BDSM organization. The Eulenspiegel Society is a
not-for-profit organization which promotes sexual liberation for all adults. Wide range of Special Interest Groups!
Especially for people who enjoy consensual SM. Also visit their D/sNET channel on IRC: #TES_friends
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Fetish Warehouse NY
117 25th Street (off 3rd Ave. At Dead End)
Brooklyn, New York 11232
(718) 369-5009
Friday & Saturday nights - 10 pm-4am
PRICES (unless otherwise indicated)
SINGLE MEN-$ 35
COUPLES-$ 30
DRESSED TVS-$ 15
WOMEN-NO CHARGE
http://www.fetishwarehouseny.com/
..."New York City's busiest SM club for pervs of every stripe..."
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NY RESOURCES
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EUROS GUIDE - NEW YORK
http://www.eros-ny.com/classifieds/erosbdsm.htm
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Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
They specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages, so... Navigate from the California page to New York
(link at the top of the CA page: NY)
The New York List is HUGE, there must be a LOT of kinky people there.. ;-)
On the New York page, don't miss the LINKS on the right to other infamous NY Clubs that I didn't use as an
example...
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Lolita's Incomplete & Biased NYC SM Resource List
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc/nysm.html
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BDSM Organizations: NEW YORK
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=NEW+YORK&view_records=View+Records&ww=
on
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AND JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE COOL
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Since you travel, these might interest you:
Fetish Convention - August 2005 - Tampa, Florida
http://www.fetishcon.com/
***********************
There's something about Kink and Halloween that really go together...
Halloween Ball - The Ultimate Halloween Bashes - 2005 - NEW ORLEANS
http://www.halloweenball.com/
http://www.halloweenball.com/neworleans/index.htm (page under construction, it's early in the year) ..."Named as "ONE OF THE TOP TEN EVENTS IN THE WORLD" by the Travel Channel..."
The Halloween Ball was in Las Vegas in 2004:
http://www.halloweenball.com/event04.htm
..."As always, there will be the unusual and wild, EROTIC STAGE PERFORMANCES as well as fire performers, seven
incredible lasers systems, lights and sounds, world class DJ's, two haunted houses, a delicious slide show featuring
the erotic photography of Justice Howard, vendors, a HUGE DANCE FLOOR, a separate hip- hop dance area, stilt
walkers, freaks, monsters, SURPRISES AROUND EVERY CORNER, and you in your naughtiest, scariest, sexiest, and most
creative costumes..."
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The Red Rooster - Halloween Party 2005 - Las Vegas, Nevada
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/
Not specifically a BDSM Club, but this place is world famous and Halloween is the kinkiest and most unusual night of
the year. Everything --and more than you can imagine, happens at this Club. The Halloween Party is always the
closest weekend to Halloween. They may not have set the date yet, but call if you're interested. The Red Rooster,
technically a "swinger's Club" is a private residence, and only accepts 'donations.' The 'recommended donation
structure' is very similiar to the Fetish Warehouse structure, above. Alcohol is allowed, BYOB, mixer is free. Live
music and free food on Friday and Saturday nights. Indoor Pool and Spa, Pool Table, ...5,000 square feet of
decadence.
Red Rooster Rules page:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/rules.html
WICKED EDEN is hosting a Fetish Party there THIS Sunday, Feb 13th:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/events.html
Difficult to find. See directions page.
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED:
5010 Steptoe
Las Vegas, Nevada
Phone: (702) 451-6661
Ask for Chris or Mike.
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Adult Services > BDSM Clubs
http://dir.yahoo.com/business_and_economy/shopping_and_services/sex/adult_services/bdsm/clubs/
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EUROS GUIDE
http://www.eros-la.com/classifieds/eroscities.htm
Other Euro Guides
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Thanks for asking this Question, it was a pleasure to serve you... if you need MORE information, or different
information in regards to Public and Private BDSM Clubs --Please ask for Clarification, before rating my Answer...
~~cynthia
Thanks SO MUCH for the 5 stars, the kind words, and the generous tip! (I did receive it)...
I enjoyed researching this for you. Please let me know if you would like additional information on this subject. If you want more info on NY and CA, I'd be happy to add more information here. If it's a new Question, you could ask for me in the subject line.
~~cynthia
Archae0pteryx
Please let me know, and THANK YOU, again.
April HVB
Tryx
One avenue of inquiry you might want to consider is legal advocate groups that serve the BDSM community. I know of at least one in SF. I can't recall the name of it, but one of the principals goes by the (scene) name of Dmitri. I am sure they would be well versed in what is and isn't legal, what kinds of cases come up, and what kinds of defenses are made. I also think some of the private organizations, such as Odyssey, Fusion, and Janus, have legal arms. I believe some of those groups have websites. And don't overlook the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, who have ties into the leather community. I am a big fan of theirs--they are a serious community service organization, giving special but not exclusive support to the gay community, despite their wickedly irreverent disguises and spirit of fun. Check their website too: http://www.thesisters.org/
They could probably steer you to legal information.
There's an above-ground club I've heard of called the Power Exchange in SF. And there's a well-known dominatrix (whose name I've forgotten) who gives lessons and holds classes.
I hope these suggestions provide you with some leads.
I also think that in some cases the legalities affecting clubs and dungeons have to do with insurance rather than with potentially illegal practices.
(Disclaimer: My interest is not academic like yours, but it's not really personal either, so I have incomplete information. I have a friend who is really, really into kinky stuff, and I am just about the only straight friend she talks to about it because I am not bothered by what other consenting adults do and I don't judge her for her private activities.)
Archae0pteryx
For instance, on Zooskool.com it says people can marry their pets, which clearly gets around the "cruelty to animals" -- as the pet is now your spouse.
Other examples of things I'd be intersted in information are:
1) Something called "Furries" people who have sex with others dressed as stuffed animals.
2) People whio have sex with dolphins.
The bottomline is, I am interested in any information that would further my research, specifically facts and statistics, laws (or lack thereof), arrests, fines and sentences.
I think it pretty likely that she would be, and of course she has lots of contacts in the scene. (She is a TA in a graduate-level human sexuality class herself and lined up several of her kinky friends to do a presentation to the class! I sat in just to listen, and it was fascinating--not just the presenters but the reactions of the class members, some of whom were so vehemently negative that you have to wonder how they are ever going to help any non-vanilla people in a counseling role. Others were very open-minded, even if it was all new to them, and I hope that's the sort of person that my friend or relative might find if they had relationship problems within an unconventional relationship--where the unconventionality itself is *not* the problem that needs solving.) However, I can't post contact information for myself or for her here, and neither can you. It's against the rules. So the point is moot.
You might do best to visit a club yourself in whatever city you're in and win the trust of participants who can introduce you to others. It's a rather closely protected world, and you have to find people who can vouch for you.
Archae0pteryx
Hi highvoltageblond,
Thank You for asking.
There are _dozens_ of clubs in both cities. I selected as examples clubs geared towards heterosexual participation in Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism (B&D/D&S/S&M). I avoided links to clubs that have affiliations: race, religion, gay and lesbian, etc. Keep in mind however, that there are probably a couple affiliation groups you might be interested in, so look them over carefully.
In these Clubs (and at Play Parties in general), there are public rooms and private rooms, and each Club has it's own rules and conduct codes, please explore the links for complete details. As far as what is NOT allowed... Not much, if you have a CONSENTING partner. There are literally hundreds of possible activities, and if something is deemed inappropriate in a public area, you would be discreetly asked to move to a private room.
What makes the private, for profit dungeons *legal* is there is ABSOLUTELY NO SEX. See The Dominion, below, for an example...
FOr certain, there are no persons under age 21, and drinking alcohol in general is not allowed. Some clubs have a minimum age restriction, usually age 25. The "LIMITS" list would be common sense, like No prostitution, No animals, No Scat (however, watersports are allowed in the large spacious bathrooms...). Some Edge Play would be too extreme for a public area, except on "Edge Play Nights"... TENS units are common in public areas in the clubs, as are all forms of Domination and submission, like: bondage, flagellation, caning, whips, cages, corporal punishment, humiliation, etc....
If you are new to this lifestyle, I would not recommend going to an Event alone, I would recommend starting out with a simple "MUNCH," nor would I spend money on any memberships till I found my niche and made some friends. Somehow I don't think this is the case. If you would like more examples, please tell me which links you liked best and I will provide similar links in a Clarification. If you have specific questions, don't hesitate to ask befpre rating my Answer.
HERE IS THE INFORMATION:
********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************
LOS ANGELES AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES
********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************
EXAMPLE CLUBS IN LOS ANGELES:
********************************************************************************
THE DOMINION - Private Dungeon
You can book an appointment by telephone at:
(310) 204-6777 or (310) 559-7111
Email: appointments@dominionsm.com
http://www.dominionsm.com/about.html
..."The only female owned and operated BDSM club in Los Angeles. Established in 1980 by Lady Laura, one of the foremost Dominas of her time, The Dominion offers a safe, clean, friendly and caring environment for you to explore your inner desires without fear of judgment.....located in a lovely Tudor style building in West LOS ANGELES. We are approximately 15 minutes from LAX, downtown Los Angeles, Century City and Santa Monica with access from both the 405 and 10 freeways..."
HOURS OF OPERATION:
Sunday: 1pm -10pm
Monday, Tuesday: 3pm - Midnight
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday: 11am - 1am
As of December 4th, 2004:
Monday - Saturday: 11am - 1am
Sunday: 1pm -10pm
Overnight sessions now available.
RATES:
$100 for ½ hour
$130 for ¾ hour
$160 per hour
Heavy sessions with a submissive:
$150 for ½ hour
$260 per hour
Caning fee is extra
***********************
The Chateau
7403 Fulton Avenue
North Hollywood, CA 91605
Phone: 1-818-503-3003
http://www.thechateau.com/
A REVIEW of the Club: http://www.eros-la.com/articles/2003-09-16/chateau/
..."The only legally licensed full nudity BDSM establishment in LA.....Appointments are not needed just come in and join our family of friends and see why The Chateau is recognized as the finest BDSM establishment in Los Angeles..."
SESSION HOURS
Monday through Saturday - 11AM to 1AM
Sunday - 11AM to Midnight
CALL FOR PRICES, they are not listed.
********************************************************************************
SOCAL RESOURCES
********************************************************************************
EUROS GUIDE - LOS ANGELES
http://www.eros-la.com/eros.htm
***********************
Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
This site specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages, so... Navigate to a long list of Los Angeles Clubs and Associations:
First page: look for "Click HERE to Enter"
Next: MEET PEOPLE (on the left)
Next: California Event Calendar
Next: Southern & Central Coast California Calendar
***********************
Gloria Brame's Kinky Links Catalog
http://gloria-brame.com/kinkylinks/onlinebylocation.html
***********************
BDSM Organizations: CALIFORNIA
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=CALIFORNIA&view_records=View+Records&ww=on
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NEW YORK AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES
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EXAMPLE CLUBS IN NEW YORK:
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TES
http://www.tes.org/
The Eulenspiegal Society New York City - NYC's oldest BDSM organization. The Eulenspiegel Society is a not-for-profit organization which promotes sexual liberation for all adults. Wide range of Special Interest Groups! Especially for people who enjoy consensual SM. Also visit their D/sNET channel on IRC: #TES_friends
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Fetish Warehouse NY
117 25th Street (off 3rd Ave. At Dead End)
Brooklyn, New York 11232
(718) 369-5009
Friday & Saturday nights - 10 pm-4am
PRICES (unless otherwise indicated)
SINGLE MEN-$ 35
COUPLES-$ 30
DRESSED TVS-$ 15
WOMEN-NO CHARGE
http://www.fetishwarehouseny.com/
..."New York City's busiest SM club for pervs of every stripe..."
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NY RESOURCES
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EUROS GUIDE - NEW YORK
http://www.eros-ny.com/classifieds/erosbdsm.htm
***********************
Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
They specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages, so... Navigate from the California page to New York (link at the top of the CA page: NY)
The New York List is HUGE, there must be a LOT of kinky people there.. ;-)
On the New York page, don't miss the LINKS on the right to other infamous NY Clubs that I didn't use as an example...
***********************
Lolita's Incomplete & Biased NYC SM Resource List
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc/nysm.html
***********************
BDSM Organizations: NEW YORK
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=NEW+YORK&view_records=View+Records&ww=on
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********************************************************************************
AND JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE COOL
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Since you travel, these might interest you:
Fetish Convention - August 2005 - Tampa, Florida
http://www.fetishcon.com/
***********************
There's something about Kink and Halloween that really go together...
Halloween Ball - The Ultimate Halloween Bashes - 2005 - NEW ORLEANS
http://www.halloweenball.com/
http://www.halloweenball.com/neworleans/index.htm (page under construction, it's early in the year) ..."Named as "ONE OF THE TOP TEN EVENTS IN THE WORLD" by the Travel Channel..."
The Halloween Ball was in Las Vegas in 2004:
http://www.halloweenball.com/event04.htm
..."As always, there will be the unusual and wild, EROTIC STAGE PERFORMANCES as well as fire performers, seven incredible lasers systems, lights and sounds, world class DJ's, two haunted houses, a delicious slide show featuring the erotic photography of Justice Howard, vendors, a HUGE DANCE FLOOR, a separate hip- hop dance area, stilt walkers, freaks, monsters, SURPRISES AROUND EVERY CORNER, and you in your naughtiest, scariest, sexiest, and most creative costumes..."
***********************
The Red Rooster - Halloween Party 2005 - Las Vegas, Nevada
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/
Not specifically a BDSM Club, but this place is world famous and Halloween is the kinkiest and most unusual night of the year. Everything --and more than you can imagine, happens at this Club. The Halloween Party is always the closest weekend to Halloween. They may not have set the date yet, but call if you're interested. The Red Rooster, technically a "swinger's Club" is a private residence, and only accepts 'donations.' The 'recommended donation structure' is very similiar to the Fetish Warehouse structure, above. Alcohol is allowed, BYOB, mixer is free. Live music and free food on Friday and Saturday nights. Indoor Pool and Spa, Pool Table, ...5,000 square feet of decadence.
Red Rooster Rules page:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/rules.html
WICKED EDEN is hosting a Fetish Party there THIS Sunday, Feb 13th:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/events.html
Difficult to find. See directions page.
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED:
5010 Steptoe
Las Vegas, Nevada
Phone: (702) 451-6661
Ask for Chris or Mike.
***********************
Adult Services > BDSM Clubs
http://dir.yahoo.com/business_and_economy/shopping_and_services/sex/adult_services/bdsm/clubs/
***********************
EUROS GUIDE
http://www.eros-la.com/classifieds/eroscities.htm
Other Euro Guides
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Thanks for asking this Question, it was a pleasure to serve you... if you need MORE information, or different information in regards to Public and Private BDSM Clubs --Please ask for Clarification, before rating my Answer...
~~cynthia
I found some more resources for you:
First, I forgot the TES Membership and Benefits info:
http://tes.org/beta/content/view/20/67/
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The Den Of Iniquity
http://www.thedenofiniquity.net/dun.html
Dungeons in Los Angeles AND New York...
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Lair De Sade
6628 Lankershim Blvd
North Hollywood, CA. 91606
http://www.lairdesade.com/
Membership information page: http://www.lairdesade.com/memberships.htm
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Threshold
The Threshold Society, Inc.
12828 Victory Blvd. #282
North Hollywood, CA 91606-3013
http://threshold.org/ Membership information: look on the left for "Join Threshold"
EMAIL: outreach@threshold.org
PHONE: Threshold Hotline (818)782-1160
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RESOURCE:
LARAWW - Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women
http://www.laraww.org/
..."is a women's group devoted to the educational and social well-being of the women's BDSM, leather, and fetish communities.....welcomes all women and transfolk, regardless of their sexual orientation or preference. However, only those persons 21 years of age and over may attend..."
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Any of these strike your fancy?
~~cynthia
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